When someone dies it can be very difficult for their family/whānau to find all the documents they need to settle the deceased's affairs.
Sound Advice about what life information and instructions you need, and where to store these safely so they are accessible to the right people when you die or are no longer able to control your own personal and/or business affairs.
What documents are required and where can you store them safely and access them easily to amend as required?
Where do I start, what is required, who do I need to tell, etc etc - so many questions.
Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) have the answers, all free of charge and written in lay persons language, below is a sample of the information they provide.
Also, here is a link to a TV Seven Sharp interview with Melissa Davies who has set up Holdmine, a secure website that guides you through what is required and provides a secure site to store it.
Melissa was 35 years old when her father died, she was Executor of his estate. She was not prepared for the responsibilities of that role, she did not know what documentation about her father she had to gather, then what she needed to do with each piece of information to ‘fully put her father to rest’. - Melissa's special mission to help others navigate through grief
That experience led Melissa to set up Holdmine to enable people while they are still well to gather, securely store, and amend as required, the required personal information and instructions for the people they name: to have access when they die or are no longer able to control their personal and/or business affairs.
There are various sections within Holdmine, you can save copies of documents or other details in there and give the people you choose to have access to your specific documents / notes / instructions.
General info here: https://www.holdmine.com/
Your Life Information Documents – Where to store them
Store your important documents and information somewhere safe and tell people you trust where they are (e.g. a key family/whānau member and/or a close friend).
You could arrange to store the documents and other important information:
- With a lawyer.
- At a secure document storage facility such as Holdmine (see above).
- In a safe place in your house.
- With your Enduring Powers of Attorney (EPAs are required for protection and promotion of your personal health and welfare and property rights when you are not fully able to manage these. NZ Law describes this in ‘Protection of Personal and Property Rights Act, 1988’).
- With someone you trust: in your family/whānau and/or a friend.
- Or you can record online where the documents are, as well as other important information. You can do this on the Department of Internal Affairs' Te Hokinga ā Wairua End of Life Services website: https://endoflife.services.govt.nz/create-my-plan#phase-582
Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) Advice
Here is a sample of the life information and instructions required when you die or are no longer able to control your own personal health and welfare and/or property matters. Find the following and more on the Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB) website, or phone, or visit your local branch.
Instruction Documents
- Instructions about writing your Will - how can I ensure that my possessions and property will be passed on to the right people after my death, for advice visit Citizens Advice Bureau website https://www.cab.org.nz/article/KB00000839
- The Citizens Advice Bureau website above advises the ways to provide instructions about how you want your personal belongings to be distributed, that are not covered in your will.
Information about your birth
- Your birth certificate. See: https://www.cab.org.nz/article/KB00000701
What needs to be done after a family/whānau member dies
- Things that must be done in the first few days after someone dies. See: https://www.cab.org.nz/article/KB00000594